NYSurvivor is playing devil's advocate. Whether it be consciously or because he's operated like a puppet on a string by the enemy - DON'T RESPOND. If that person had such a deeper insight than the rest of us on this board, he wouldn't need to be here except to harass you because he would be living in such marital bliss.
Asking if it's possible to have wife attend counseling sessions is me being an operative of satan?
Amy, I do have insights, I post them. Others have found them useful, and they've worked in my sitch as well. My purpose here has never been to harass others. I was pointing out stuff that Frank vehemently disagreed with and discounts. I se much in the posts that's being overlooked, just was giving him a heads up, he was wondering why he was seeing what he's seeing. He doesn't understand what he's seeing and I was offering some light on that, not darkness.