Quote: She still definatly doesn't want to be married
I'm not sure how accurate this is. I know it's what she said, but I think that what she *means* is this: "Being in our old M is not me; being married to the old *you* was awful and I don't want to go there again. I should have left the old Frank years ago, and I'm sorry I didn't because now we are such good friends that it's really hard to do, esp. since he's turning into this interesting new Frank."
She said herself that she has a "hole" to fill, and the R with OM was doing that (it's over?? Woo hoo!). She wants a R, just not the one that you two had. Blaise Pascal said that everyone has a God-shaped hole in them that only He can fill. That is her real need, but the only thing you can do for that is to pray.
She still sees you as friend, which is good.
Are you seeing last night as a negative? It sounds full of plusses to me.
Nicola
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