NYSurvivor is playing devil's advocate. Whether it be consciously or because he's operated like a puppet on a string by the enemy - DON'T RESPOND. If that person had such a deeper insight than the rest of us on this board, he wouldn't need to be here except to harrass you because he would be living in such marital bliss. So surely that must be the case or he'd be working more on lifting his own marriage up instead of tearing your good progress down.
That being said.....YOUR WIFE'S A is OVER??? YAY!
Now you can get down to serious business. SLOWLY. Baby steps to get back into her heart like you want to be. Keep in mind though, she has told you she KNOWS she has a "void" in her life. Don't look to fill that Frank. There's a void in all of us that can only be filled by One. You understand what I am saying. Understand she's still on her "search" and hopefully she won't get led into something weird along the way.
You have a really good idea already as to how to proceed here. Slow, steady, consistant, unconditional love. A little romance if the opportunity presents itself would be great....
