Frank wrote: What a blatant attempt at insulting me
I'm sorry you see it as a "blatant insult", I did not intend any insult, I was telling you how I feel, based on what occurred before. I'm entitled to my feelings, Frank. I didn't pull it out of outer space, it's completely reasonable too for me to think you may snap my head off should I post something you don't like to hear... and actually, look! I post my concern and you lash back calling it an insult. Wow... My feelings and my concerns are but... insults to you.
but please don't follow my threads any more and post to them
Well, I only wished to give you a heads up on what I see happening on your sitch. Since I'm a member of this site I can freely post on any thread I wish to. But I'll be more than happy to honor your request after this post, if you wish.
Huh? She isn't trying to 'keep the peace' nor 'avoid', she is NOT trapped, she knows I have committed to giving her whatever resources she needs to start the business she has wanted. She has simply reiterated her need for divorce and to try to be 'friends'.
I'm having a hard time making your answer fit the facts, please elaborate.
Frank, financing someone's business is not the same thing as giving them what they want emotionally.
I think my answer does fit the facts, her words, her wish for divorce, her recent crying bout, how she's been thinking for a few days, what she said to you the morning after the heart incident and her behavior since, that her relationship with OM is gone, her wish for no more sex, plus what I see of how you interact with her, etc., ... fits almost like a glove. Sorry you don't see it, but you and I know if I post any thing more elaborative, then we're just on a merry-go-round of denials and accusations and that bullshit goes nowhere fast.
I will suffice in telling you this, I don't think she can change right now. She's just the product of how she's learned to deal with things, and that's the path I recognize she's on. I think you and her need to work out some underlying issues that you're not cognizant of, so, do you think it possible to have her attend MC with you?
