Quote: She gave up on ME when I needed her. She gave up on FAMILY. And now she expects everyone to just go along and be happy that we all 'get along so well'.
Yes, yes, yes. Amen brother Frank! I see my wife taking that approach too and it is one of the hardest things to bear without laying it all out to her. It's also one of the hardest things about DBing. It's almost like we have to take blame not only for what is clearly our part of the bad marriage, but theirs too by way of our silence. It really sucks. As usual, I'll be thinking of you and hope you soon have 2 good days for every bad one...
