Today after the Kayak trip of yesterday WAW was distant in the morning. But in the late afternoon / evening she was warming up to me and just seemed happy I was around. Nothing special, a few touches from her here and there. Very different than other actions lately.
At one point she came up behind me and put her hand on my shoulder, then leaned over my shoulder to read a grocery list I was writing. Way different than anything lately.
I made a fire, got soe smiles then left the room to 'detach'. When I came in from my office I had done a bunch of things that were because of a mistake I had made earlier. She was lying on the couch and asked mne whats wrong. I said "I made a mistake (this is rare inthe work I do that I make mistakes)". She smiles, to say that "it's ok, even YOU make mistakes (a running joke with us) Then she reaches out and holds my hand. Keeps talking about me 'fixing it like I always do'. She talked about something else but I don't remember because I was enjoyning her holding my hand!
Anyway, I let go and left the room politely.
A little later we wer talking about D15 and her friends at school whose parents are getting divorces. She is the only one whose parents don't fight. So W says "I'll be she will complain tomorrow to her friends that her parents get along!" I was thinking that her making that point was her recognizing that we DO get along better than we have in a long time. Pretty interesting.
Not sure what is going on with OM, but it seems to be less of an infatuation.
