It is an offshoot of the theory that it's not really about the OM. My W said that over and over. If that's true then why don't they realize that it's advantageous to revisit their relationships once the OM fades to see what is possible
My W has said that also...and I'm having the same struggles with it...Frank did leave a humerous post on my thread about it, check it our if you have time.
I think our W's deep dowm want to come back, but something is keeping them from taking the leap back. You are in an envyable position in my eyes because you have your W at home, where at least there is some communication...my W despite saying that she wanted more communication outside of MC is always with OM so I don't when she expects it to happen.
Hang in there...Me, you, Frank, Tim, and all the others on here will get through this...It may or may not be with W. But we will be fine and we have to have the confidence in knowing that we are worthy of a great R (especially after we know what we know now about ourselves)
