Ok, I really don't mean to push anything or go over the line with you but please consider going to church with your wife. I'll get personal about myself here and tell you that I do a lot of praying about my situation, and ALL of ours, in fact. I have a lot of faith and sometimes, that's all that's gotten me through a particularly bad moment since this all started. All I can say is that if my H. came to me and wanted to go to church with me, I would be incredibly thankful for that. Not all of us feel the same way about religion, and that's our right of course. Just saying I think this is a big positive. I mean, certainly at church they aren't going to be singing the praises of infidelity, right? Let me know what happens.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
