Quote: So you see, it's not about how it's presented, but how it's interpreted.
Actually, NYS, that was my quote and this will be the last time I take up space to respond to this kind of thing. It's counterproductive. If several people (actually everyone who took the time or energy to respond) took your approach as sarcastic and "attacking" then maybe, just maybe, it's not our interpretation of your remarks, it's your remarks that were out of line. You can keep justifying yourself, trying to prove you're right by continuing to belittle the attempts by Frank to put this behind him but in the end, it doesn't change anything. Frank, me, Tim, hope, and everyone else here are in a very fragile emotional state, which obviously you have some experience with, but are beyond right now. Good for you, and I meant that. If I ever get to that place, I doubt I would come back here and do anything to mess with the folks gathered to help each other. To me, it would be like a reformed alcoholic going to AA and calling out the people at the meeting for being weak and dependent. It's a marvelous grasp of obvious to say that. Anyway, like I said, you can take this statement and rip it apart line for line but I will not reply to it. Frank apologized, and it's time to move on. You're right. Seriously, you are.
