does anyone have any comments to my W's reactions and feelings this morning? I kinda would like some feedback on that.
OK. I hear what she said when she thought she needed help and I hear what she told you this morning. I also have just gotten a few tastes of how you react, and knowing just a bit about your sitch based on what you've posted, factoring it all in, my take is I think she's swallowing any hurt she felt over the neglect she perceived and is trying to keep peace with you and blaming herself for her own normal reaction of last night's concerns. I also think she's going to tell someone else how she really feels.
It may be a good idea for the two of you to open up about this with your counselor.
Sorry it doesn't agree with yours about being a "white knight in shining armor" in her eyes, but hey, you wanted feedback.