Unfortunately Frank, I can be of no help here. Have faith in the adage that the "grass isn't always greener on the other side." Sure, she may be moving forward with gaining her independence right now, but when she actually has to "live" it in reality as opposed to theory, it may be enough to sour her on the whole deal.
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu
