Well, W has been busily working on writing her resume today (massage therapist) so she can apply for jobs. OM sent her his as an example and she got some other ones too. Side note: OM hangs drywall for a living and does massage as a 'new' career apparently due to 'physical' issues.
Anyway, W seems very happy - she is being proactive which I like. My pessimism is kicking in and saying she is TOO happy and is that way because she is 'moving forward' with becoming separated and divorced. In other words, she has a 'plan' now. Plus of course OM supports her decisions and is helping her with her resume.
This is kind of scaring me since it tells me she is "full steam ahead" in gaining her independence from me and the marriage. And she is getting the emotional support from her 'soulmate' to continue doing this. If he wasn't there this wouldn't be moving like this but, it is what it is.
Anyone else had any experiences with WAW who has OM, and / or had to get a job and other things to establish her independence? What did they do? Get more or less distant?
Unrelated note: Cell phone logs show that they did not talk from Dec 25th to Jan 7th although she DID call him several times but did not connect. But I'm not snooping her mail so I have no idea what they talk about in the past 2 weeks but I do know they are still e-mailing and IM'ing.
