Anyway, I guess it's helping me to see that there are other, stronger women out there who could be compatible with me.


Yes, Frank. There are a lot of other women our there. I know you are committed to making your M work and I admire and support you. It is good however, to look forward and know that you will be alright.

He would be able to cope much better if you were threatening him, but you won't do that now, will you. You just need his HELP!

Thanks for the reminder. I don't know exact dollars. I know I'm entitled to 1/2 our marital assets. The bulk of that being tied up in the 2 companies. At issue is....what are these companies worth? H's brother and SIL have been in a nasty divorce that has drug on for 2 1/2 years mainly trying to sort out the companies' worth. Their trial is now postponed until May. (June marks the end of 3 years since original filing) I do not want to spend 3 years in a court battle! Hopefully, the companies worth will be determined in that divorce and we can avoid all that ugliness.

Thanks again for your help. It is a very good suggestion.

Spitfire

Always do right. This will gratify some people, and astonish the rest.
Mark Twain