Frank,

Thanks for the advice. We have only had 2 money discussions since he left. I wouldn't describe them as friendly but they weren't overly hostile either. In any event, they were surface discussions and didn't get down to the nitty gritty.

I think I totally blind-sided him last week when I asked him what the hold up (for our splitting up legally) was. He stammered around and then finally said he would make an appt. with his accountant to collect some financial info. on the companies. He was to get back with me after that so we could "discuss it" It's been a over a week and he's not brought it up, even though we have talked since then. Hmmmmmmmm ....avoidance???

Anyway, you're doing great, Frank. I share your feelings on not wanting a spouse to return to the M for financial reasons. What kind of life is that?? I still feel very positive about your sitch. Let's hope W continues with indiv. C. I think you have a gem with that C.

Spitfire


Always do right. This will gratify some people, and astonish the rest.
Mark Twain