Things are starting to get better. We are talking and getting along much better. We decided not to separate, but to work through it. Steve became more focused on fixing it when I told him I was doing this for me and not him because I wanted to be happy. He told me that is what he found attractive about me. That I was so goal set if life and that I was finally thinking about my happiness instead of everyone else. So once I re-established that then things were so much better. We are going on a date tonight. We are going out to dinner and then to shoot some pool. Thanks for all your help. I'll keep updating.