Thank you for the advice... I have not brought up the subject, about the past since the other night, and he seems to be calming down and at least he is talking to me again and saying ILY. (which is a plus) we were talking about a separation, just so each of us could take a look at what is really wrong, and I told him I would move in with my parents, and he told me no because I would have to give up so much in order to do it, so at least he is thinking about me for once instead of himself. I don't know if we will separate because the decision isn't final yet. I'll keep posting if anything changes.
