whoa so many questions... 1) Yes he is working, he works as a security officer. I work two jobs 1 full time because of financial reasons and the second because I'm done at 2 in the afternoon and I was getting bored, so I got another job. 2) We moved to Harrisburg after we were married. We are originally from Northern Pa. My friends either live there or in NY state. 3) He said he wasn't sure because of money. I told him we had bills that needed to be paid and I didn't know if there would be enough, but we were going to go out this weekend and shoot pool or go to dinner. 4)He tells me that he isn't cheating and he gave the passwords to all his e-mail accounts, instant messengers, etc. When I start distrusting him is when he starts hiding things from me. He has specific facial expressions when he isn't telling the whole story or leaving out a few details. For example "Where are you going" H- "I don't know, but I have to get going" "when will you be back?" H- "Later" When in fact he is going to his sisters or something like that. It's stupid things like that are what I find irratating. It makes me feel like there is something else there because he can't just come out and say it.
