First off I'm not eager to have a baby.
Sorry Kitty! I read Karen's thread (about taking it easy and trying again soon) right around the same time as your's. I must have gotten your stories mixed up.

he is going back to school so he can get a degree in criminal justice while trying to get into the police acadamy.
I work 2 jobs and it's hard for me to find time to do anything.
Is he working? Are you fiancially supporting him?

all my friends from before don't live any closer than 3 hours away.
Why? Did you and H move away from them?

I told my H that I wanted to go out on a "date" this weekend like we used to and he agreed after a few days of telling me he didn't know.
What didn't he know? That he wanted to go out or did he have something else planned? I'd be tempted to ask again and if he's not into it, make some plans with your friends or family... go for a drive.

The fact that I can't seem to get over them after almost 3 years is making him mad and to be honest isn't making me all that happy.
Understandably! What does he do to help you trust him? What makes you distrust him? Kitty, sometimes our gut feelings are too easy to dismiss as insecurity. Your feelings are valid. Listen to them. Trust is earned; what has he done to earn your trust?

Pam