Oh Kitty. This is a whole different situation. If your H is having an affair then this situation is not about being in a sex starved M and having sex won't fix it. You MUST deal with the affair issues. I really think you both (you alone if he won't go) need counseling. I am really concerned that you are dealing with a repeat cheat and liar here. You are a young woman. Do not have children with him. In fact, I'm not sure I would have sex with him of any sort until you have some things sorted out. Hang in here with us and we will try to help. First, find a counselor.
