First thing you have to do is to stop being grabby/needy and angry with your husband. No more yelling. Basically, you need to back off a bit without being angry with him.
Two things will drive him away quicker than just about anything else. One is acting needy. The second is anger.
Please tell us more about your situation. Specifically, what was a typical sexual interaction between the two of you before all the problems started.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
