I am 20 years old and my H will be 24 this month. It seems like we are too young to be having this problem, but this iswhat's going on. confused: On new years eve it is has been a tradition of ours (my husband and I) to have sex. I know it's a little weird, but it always seems to work like that since we've been together almost 6 years. In June of 2005 we were married and this year everything has changed. When we first were married our sex life was better than ever and then after a couple of months things started to change. It started out that it was only oral sex for both of us, or it was oral for my husband and intercourse for me. Now it's getting to the point where I had to choose on or the other while either way he recieved oral sex. Well he did that to me on New year's where I had to choose and it really upset me and it caused a huge fight. It went on for a couple days where he wouldn't talk to me at all , then it went to he'll talk to me but he wouldn't touch me, and now it's he'll talk to me, and hug me (if I ask) and that's it. He refuses to have any sexual relations with me at all. When I told him it really makes me feel bad that he dosen't want to be with me in that manner it makes him mad and tells me I'm just being mean and I have no reason to be hurt by it because he dosen't feel like dealng with it. I can't help but be hurt and upset. Is there anything I can do with this? All I want to do is cry and it's making me feel so alone. Then later today things went from bad to worse. I really think this may be the end. Tonight I finally got my H to admit why he won't have any relations with me and he claims it's because everything is different now. I am so tired of the fighting and I need real help. Please someone... I don't know what to do. I have tried being nice, I've asked him to go on a date and he told me no we needed to save money but in the next sentance he told me he wanted to buy a video game. Then tonight he walked out on me when I was trying to talk to him. This isn't working and I don't know how to fix it. HELP PLEASE!!!!!!
