Tough question - Do we just sit around and wait? I guess if having patience means waiting then yes! But does our whole life stop NO! When my wife and I first seperated my life stopped! My career meant nothing, lost contact with friends and family, and the worst thing is it was all reflected back on my kids! Now that my wife and started to reconcil (although we have taken a major step back recently) our kids are completly different. From this I know I will have to keep balance in my life and remain a positive influence for my kids regardless of the relationship with my wife! I made a commitment to my wife 8 years ago when I married her and that was for life! I also renewed that commitment when we first seperated that this is the women I want to spen my life and I will fight and do what is necessary to keep our R and marriage together! For how long? Right now personally I see no end to this commitment, so that means I am willing to wait with no end in sight! May that change? Possibly but those feelings have not entered the picture at all thru all this believe it or not! Take it day by day and remaining positive to hopefully ifluence the people around me be better people!
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
