I'm glad to hear that your girls are your little rocks - I have a almost 9 and 10 year old daughters, as well as a 4 year old son. My kids keep me sane on the nights my H goes out - when they see me reach for the phone to call him (he never answers by the way since he is probably with her),they tell me to hang up. They tell me anger is my enemy and if Dad cared he would call us. When he does comes home they are cold towards him! My son told him the other day, "Daddy, don't go out no more, tell your friends they can come here" - They are all wise beyond their years. Don't get me wrong, they break down and cry too cause they don't want us to split up and I hate that they even have to go thru this but I don't think I could go on without them