Hi, I understand why you want to speak to the OM. My ex-boyfriend of 8 years moved in with his new girlfriend 5 months ago. He was not honest with me about his relationship with her & made me think he and I were working things out. I called her last September to see what their relationship truly was. I was nice and cordial and told her why I called and about what he was telling me. She got angry at me and started arguing. I told her that she had my phone number and if she ever wanted to talk like 2 adults to please call me. It made her try harder and they moved in together in November. He told our friends that they both had to change their phone numbers because I was harassing them. I stopped all contact when he moved in with her. I started dating in January and the ex makes contact with me. Gives me his phone # and wants to talk about the possibilty of "dating" and seeing where it would go. He convinced me we could handle it. After about 6 weeks and finally getting physical, he said he "got spooked" and started avoiding me. I stopped the contact. He calls a couple of times a week and emails prayers, etc. I sent the new girlfriend an email this weekend to let her know that he had been contacting me. She will get it at work tomorrow. If she confronts him I will explain my motives. If he was sincere with me I'm sure it will hurt our chances for a future. I'm not sure that was what I needed anyway.
