Quote: I aapreciate everyone's input. I just feel like a chump sitting around and doing nothing. I figuresd that if I did confront him it might seam to her as if I really did want to fight for her and that I do trulet love her. I don't know i guess that would be wishful thinking.
Understandable...but no need to sit around doing nothing and feel like a chump...get out and do something with yourself!! That will take your focus off him...remember this is never about the op...as someone pointed out they just represent a bandaid to the true pain of the relationship.
