Stay away from the OM! I had a chance to confront the OM once and just walked away! I scared the #$%#^ out of him by just the look on my face and he got the message Send a card on her birthday but keep it short! Do not know the situation but try to say something a little different in the card that she would not expect! Catch her attention a little and create a little mystery!
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
