It's a deal, GF! No girlifying here! That's one of my H's biggest concerns, too. Of course if he was *that* concerned, he should've stuck around. But that's neither here nor there. He said, "What are you gonna do? Dress him up in dresses and teach him how to paint? You can teach him how to ride a bike. That's easy." Ackhole. He can KMA. That's easy, too.

Anyway, I try to remain as "gender neutral" as possible with my kids. My minor in college was Women's Studies, and whereas that paid off for my daughters (who I allow to mess around with makeup and fingernail polish and all that garbage -- no offense to anyone; even I use the stuff sometimes ), I'll have to be careful with my boy. Of course, my dad and brother are nearby; they won't let me screw up too badly.

...but I promise that I will not refer to his underpants as panties. I can *definitely* promise that one!