dontfret Hope you're doing well! I guess I really don't know the answer to your question. It probably depends on the judge, but I agree with you: Either way, they'll look like an a$$. Because that's what they are. I think in my sitch the "sympathy" stems from him abandoning me period, but especially while preggo, coupled with the fact that he is with OW. And it looks like he left me for her, even if that wasn't his intent. That's where his phone records screw him.
Hope Thank you so much for stopping by. And you're absolutely right: I have to trust my L. And thank goodness that I do. It appears to me that H's L is either incompetent, unaware or he's dragging H by his nose just to make money off him. I've heard of those kinds of Ls before: They know their client is kinda screwed, but they're willing to take on their case just to make money. And my H would be the one to fall for it -- took out a loan to retain his L before he started coming back around last month. H is the materialistic kind, and he's never had to deal with legal sitches, so whatever his L says is what goes. Oh well. As I've said before, I'm tired of protecting the dumba$$. Let him go in debt over a case he's not gonna get anywhere with. It's none of my concern.
Again, thanks for stopping by. I hope any experiences I'm sharing with you over on your thread are helpful. You know what's said about advice: Use what works and dump the rest! You're gonna be okay.
You're gonna be okay. 