A little more ... and only because so many folks seemed interested about the standard of proof for adultery a while back when that was the hot topic on my thread.

Just had another brief conversation with my atty. I asked if H's phone records and my word that I caught H and OW together would be enough, or if I needed actual evidence. (He laughed when I told him I needed something to do this weekend anyway. ) He said we had more than enough to plead it right now. The only way we would need more is if the case goes to trial. Icky. That sounds big and scary, doesn't it?

Anyway, just thought I'd let you guys know. Why don't we have a "Court" section on the boards? Hmmm. Maybe that's what "Surviving the Big D" is for, eh? Also, Ls are a big DB no-no. Oh well. Since my sitch still includes OW for the time being, I'll prolly still keep posting here in Infidelity for a while.