More rantings and ravings from Preggo

[spitfire23]

Hi Preggo,
You are absolutely right. He hasn't got a clue how this is going to unfold. Call me old fashion but, I can't imagine too many judges looking kindly on a man leaving his pregnant wife. I'd wager it's high on the list of divorce no-nos.

My H has a tendancy to think things will work out his way just because he wants them to. Logic, reason, rationale never enter into his thinking. Oh well, guess it'll be the courts and judges that knock some sense into them. Didn't you say earlier that your H had fired his L after you caught him and OW? Something like he knew he was going to get screwed now, so he didn't need an attorney? Maybe I'm getting confused with someone else's thread.

I think it is kind of you to worry about the judge blasting your H. Maybe he needs that. Maybe it's the only way he will ever wake up.

My friend's sister just had her D hearing last week. My friend said it was so pathetic because the judge asked the H how old his children were and he couldn't answer. He looked to his STBXW and asked her.

You're right. They don't get it and we can't fix it for them. It doesn't mean we don't feel sadness over their downward spiral. Watching someone you love self destruct is very, very hard. I would have passed on this life experience had I been given that option.

Hope you're having a good day.

Spitfire