bigAl, you are sooooo bad!! And I freakin' *love* it!! I think you're right. I don't get it, but I don't have to. I just know that I'm going to continue being consistent in how I deal with him. I'm not trying to win him back. So I'm going to treat him today the same way I'll treat him a year from now. I don't think I'll have many regrets. He's his own problem.

Hey, ka_zump! Good point. I guess I didn't even think about that ... shows how "violated" I was. Been meaning to ask you: How are *you* doing? Anything new going on in your sitch?