Dang, Z-Bube, can I give a big ditto to what you said in that post.

General suggestions are hard to implement. Of course, I find myself in R convos with my wife giving her general suggestions sometimes Anyway, I like the specific stuff too, and I do feel lost as to what exactly to do next, how to get her to communicate. And sometimes it feels like I'm on one of those really fast European trains, and jumping off is a daunting perspective.


"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"

Inertia Creeps by Massive Attack