H would pooh pooh it, so it would not go over well in my house, but I say more power to ya!
What would he find sexy. Hmmm, that's a tough one. He has always said No Lingerie, just naked wife. I'm not sure if that's because he truly doesn't like lingerie or because he is insecure and fears that if I wear it, he is supposed to act a "certain" way.
What am I absolutely 100% certain that he finds sexy? Nothing! There is nothing that I do, say, wear or suggest that drives him wild. If he goes 3 days or more without sex, he's horny for me. That's about all I know.
He insists there's not much more than that to his sex drive, so that's what I work with.
If I sound pissy this morning it's my own fault! I had ordered a bunch of things from Victorias Secret and one thing was on back order, wouldn't arrive until months away. This morning I got an email saying that my VS order is being shipped. Silly me, I had forgotten all about the backorder item and foolishly thought that H had gotten over his I hate Vickie's thing and bought me something that I'd actually LIKE for Valentine's day. Then I remembered the backorder item and hopes were dashed. I am feeling ridiculously resentful today so I will talk to him tonight. Doesn't help that last night he was being a rude jackass again and I had to reiterate my boundary from the night before. sheesh, sometimes life is harder than it needs to be!
However, I should say that even on our bad nights we still have fun together and managed to ML anyway.
