"Chrome, I looked at the pajamas you picked out and I thought they were cute. My H would never consider them "sexy"."

Really?!? I guess I feel really horny now. I didn't want to go with anything sheer or revealing a lot of skin so soon after the pregnancy. Like I said, doesn't bother me, I just want her to be comfortable, and her wearing something like that would get me going, so best of both worlds, kwim? I am curious though what your H would find sexy. Merry widow (sp?)? Something completely see-through?

"Sometimes reading this board creates resentment in me that otherwise would not have been there. This is something I need to work on!!!"

Definitely! I don't know how many times I have felt strong pangs of jealously when I read to what lengths you ladies go to attract your H's. I have to remind myself of the history and reasons why my W does the things she does, that it isn't a "her fault" issue, but a combination of many things. Plus, it gives me something to look forward to. I think I will appreciate her initiating more because of our history than I would if it had happened all along. Of course, I would have appreciated it all along too.

"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"

Inertia Creeps by Massive Attack