No problem. I've just never bought anything like that before for the wife. The book is called "The Sex Diet" and it is all about learning and developing your sensuality as well as sexuality. The reviews on amazon were in general very good, which I know you can't always trust, but the comments about the book seemed to be what I'm looking for. Lots of exercises that help you develop as sense of your own sexuality. I guess I was just a little worried how she might take it. The other gift was a pink nightshirt (button down) and pink boxers that have kiss prints all over them. It looks sexy, but she can cover up her stomach with the shirt if she is feeling self-conscious. Plus it is machine washable
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
