On a Valentines Day note.....why not try something that's a compromise in the PJ's? You know she wants to wear something warm & cozy right? You want something a bit sexier than a parka right? redenvelope.com has something my H pointed out to me that he liked. It's a red cashmere sleep set in a tank top & shorts. He thinks it's really cute, I don't know what your taste run....but it might be a compromise. Something skimpier for you....but something warm for her
On the MC front....I often intentionally saved some things I wanted to address for our MC's office, just because I didn't want to be misunderstood and knew what I wanted to bring up could easily be misconstrued by my H. Some people might say that's avoiding talking to him....I don't view it that way. I made a very concious effort not to talk through our MC when we were at her office....I would turn and talk to him, or ask him what I wanted to ask....our MC just acted as a interpretor if we needed her to. I found this to be pretty successful.
However...If you bring this up, and she answers it...accept it, move on. Don't dwell on this, don't 2nd guess her answers. There are other issues you two need to concentrate on that are more pressing than what she wears to bed....and if you concentrate on those, what she wears to bed may change on it's own
