"I felt quite sad walking past the Victoria's Secret, thinking of how I would LOVE to buy something from there, but my fiancee would never wear any of that intimate apparel to bed!"

That is really sad Scott. I don't walk by Fredericks of Hollywood for the same reason. My W will take one look in there and say "trashy" and keep going.

My W has taken to wearing non-revealing PJs recently, but it is mostly due to embarrasment over her stomach (having the twins split her abdomonal (sp?) muscles and the third kid split them again, plus her skin is very brown and wrinkled). It doesn't bother me but she is self conscious.

I'm thinking though of going out on a limb a bit and buying her the following items for v-day.

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0060829990/ref=cm_gift_gg_R1I63VSW7S0EO6_0060829990/103-1519936-9197400?n=283155

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/B000E628J6/ref%3Dcm%5Fgift%5Fgg%5FR1I63VSW7S0EO6%5FB000E628J6/103-1519936-9197400

I'll just let her know that I am not expecting anything soon, just planning for the future. I figure if she reads that book, one of these days she may show up to bed wearing that nightgown and ...

And at any rate, if the gifts get her upset, at least I will know how she feels about it. I plan on taking her to dinner also (got a babysitter for the twins).

What are you planning for v-day?


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