Don't be embarrassed, I think many of us fall into a cliche' here or there...myself included I'm sure.
It's so very easy for us, especially as women I think, to look at our H's and think "I've got kids to take care of....you can take care of yourself." I thin that's just part of what we fall into when kids come along....it's not intentional, it's just that well....kids take up A LOT of your time and energy. As loveable, darling, cute, fun etc...as they are....they are also little energy zappers at times.
It is oh-so-important to make sure your H does stay on your priority radar. Sure, he can take care of himself....but he wants to feel he's in a R w/you too....and not just a paycheck, roommate, or the kids dad. If he doesn't feel he's R with you...it's all to easy to feel used, neglected, unloved etc.
BTW...have you read Michelle's book for sale on here? Sex Starved Marriage. If you haven't get it, it's a very easy read.
