CeMar.

Why would a man actually WANT to ML to a women that can not desire first? Talk about an unfulfilling EC.

I will ask my H this and get back to you.
You know me being a arousal then desire person who still has a H that wants to make love almost daily and seems to be very fufilled by this. So I will ask him why but I am sure he will say something about its worth jumping through the hoops once the desire does kick in.