Sorry to hear about your sitch. I am glad you are starting to want it more. When my wife and I do have sex, she seems to enjoy it, she just never wants it. Do not make the mistake my wife has done, thinking that "If he wants it, then I will let him have it". This TOTALLY does not work, and in fact, it is a recipe for making things worse. I feel like my wife is like a hooker, its her job to have sex with me. I want a lover, not a hooker. The difference is all DESIRE. I want to make love to a women that WANTS me to make love to her without me having to jump through all kinds of hoops to get her into the mood. When it comes to the sexaul encounter, the desire for sex is FAR more important then the actual sex. Why would a man actually WANT to ML to a women that can not desire first? Talk about an unfulfilling EC.
