Cemar, I think about you often. I think I was on the same road your wife is on. I wish I could tell her how much better it could be. At the beginning of the end when I first found out about H's A, I thought, well, he wants more sex, I can do that. I did, and you know what, the more I got, the more I wanted. Too bad, at that time, he just wasn't "in" to me...figuratively that is. So, that's when I got the taste of my own medicine and realized how awful it is to be wanting someone and have them turn away from you. I learned my lesson, just a little too late.


Each experience in life has formed me, become part of me, made me stronger.