You make a good point, the very LD probably would not sleep nude. The real conflict in the HD/LD relationship is not really just about sex ( I am not talking about slightly LD, I am talking more about ND). The REAL problem is in the way we each lead our lives. When people are HD (yes even my wife at one time), they live their lives completely differently then when they are LD. A persons personality is greatly impacted by their "Sexual Confidence". Like with sleeping naked, people that sleep naked tend to NOT have hangups about the way they look. Being naked tends to make them FEEL sexy. It tends to make them feel GOOD about themselves. But for my wife, she feels the opposite because of body image, because she is trying to avoid sex, because she does not feel safe, because we have kids in the house (youngest is 9 though). It's like for one to be happy, the other must be unhappy.
I would challange anyone though to show me where some counselor or book or article RECCOMENDS bundling up like an eskimo to HELP your marriage.
