QUOTE ____________________________________________________________ So your spouse's physical comfort means less to you than your own physical comfort? And you wonder why your wife doesn't want to sleep with you.... ____________________________________________________________
This is the card that my fiancee plays on me - "why would you want me to be uncomfortable?!". I do want her to be comfortable, but at one time she did sleep completely nude with me (for a long period of time as well, I would say the first 1.5 years of our relationship). Since that time, she has gained significant weight so she might be uncomfortable sleeping nude because of her body image, but I can't see her uncomfortable in bed as far as actual sleeping conditions. It would be different if she never slept nude, but the fact she did at the beginning of the relationship and not now is a cause of a *significant* loss of intimacy between us (to me).
QUOTE ____________________________________________________________ In my situation, since neither of us prefers to sleep naked, it is not an issue at all. We can still cuddle and spoon and still get bare leg and bare arm contact and it is enough. ____________________________________________________________
Heck, I would be happy with even that. My fiancee is in the full-blown eskimo gear: Arm length shirt and full flannel pajama pants so no bare arm/leg contact for me whatsoever. I've honestly started to forget what she looks like nude.
