H always sleeps nude. I USED to sleep nude and maybe slip on a pj top during the night if my shoulders got cold. Recently I have been wearing pj's to bed. It really has to do with my new attitude of "it can't always be me who is trying." It probably would do me good to shuck the clothes again. I had just been feeling so crappy about us and crappy about my figure that I had started covering up. Now I am in a kind of limbo place where the attitude is "I will do my part and you, H, must do yours." So...I guess I will shuck the pj's again because that really is "my part." The thing is that when I feel that skin to skin I inevitably get horny and I have given up my job as the "sole initiator" so it is kinda frustrating at times.
Incidentally, we always snuggle before going to sleep but when we get ready to really fall asleep we each kinda get in our own preferred sleep position.