You may think that the most comfortable thing is skin to skin contact in bed, but your W may not agree with that. I sleep nude pretty much all the time, but I cannot stand to cuddle when I'm trying to sleep....I get too, so for me, cuddling when trying to sleep is very uncomfortable, I simply cannot stand it...I feel like I'm going to suffocate.
My H on the other hand, would love to cuddle while sleeping...he loves to snuggle. But he definitely understands that I get uncomfortable....and it's nothing personal towards him. So instead, now....we make sure to get that snuggle contact in when we're on the couch watching tv or something like that.
Do you even realize how much you project onto other people? You think spooning naked is the most comfortable thing so other people should too? Projecting CeMar!