Interesting question! We used always to sleep nude. Since the kids came along I no longer do. I guess I wasn't comfortable nude when sitting up nursing at night and then having to get out of bed through the night when they were tiny I preferred to have something on than hunt around in the dark for my robe. Kind of got used it. The kids often jump in our bed in the mornings and I am NOT comfortable that H is nude when they jump in.
Don't know if this is part of what is affecting his drive, although I stick to fairly skimpy and I hope sexy nightwear and will often let nighty ride up while we are cuddling so he can cop a feel of whatever he wants to.
Fran
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