I was wondering how many of you sleep nude with your spouse/significant other? I believe this is one of the best ways of sharing intimacy with your partner, and wondering if this happens much in a SSM. It seems most likely that if there are sexual issues, than there are overall intimacy issues as well.
My fiancee used to sleep completely nude with me until I moved in with her. At that point, she started sleeping in her 'Eskimo' gear - you know the outfit... long sleeved shirt, full length flannel pajama pants, etc. If she wore socks to bed, I wouldn't feel any skin at all at this point. I have asked her countless times that I would like her to sleep nude or topless, but she refuses. Naturally, I point out that she used to sleep like this so what is the difference now. She never really had any type of logical explanation (said she is cold, but she was never cold before) and just recently told me she wish she had never slept nude with me <ouch> so that it would not be an issue now.
Anyway, I was just interested in seeing who here sleeps nude with their partner. I really miss this because (to me) it is really a GREAT way of bonding and building/maintaining intimacy.
