Thanks Rob. I think I need to make sure it has a beginning, middle and end at least in my mind and that it doesn't degrade into detrimental R talk. I think she needs to know, once, that I understand a lot of things are wrong with me and us, and have been for awhile, and as I said, be specific. I know I never validated her along the way but I want to try to do a little now. I still don't know if it's a good idea. Any others imput?
