Just want to drop by and give you some support. I think you are a great person to be DBING to have your W back. I know it is difficult to have your W going out with om and then pretends all is A-OK. I guessed you could take it as a positive that she still tries to maintain normality in your interactions. Although it is rather hurtful to us LBS, when you put things in perspective, having the WAS be "nice" to us is much better than them "hating" us. It may sound lame..at least she says that she's going to a movie and not outright tell you that she is going to be with om to rub it onto your face. Guessed she knows that is not "right". I guessed all I can do is to urge you to be patient and to concentrate on yourself and your wonderful boys.