You can do it if you believe you want to get to the point of being able to tell yourself you did everything you could to make the R work, and either it will or you will feel a better person for having tried - if only for the kids and your own self esteem, don't let the heat of the moment drive you to do something although you do not have control over your W you do have control over you and how you behave.
Wow Lotty great advice! My thearapist said the same thing this morning to me! TMU you are doing great, and should be proud of the fact that you can look back 1 yr or 10 yrs from now and be confident you are doing everything you can to make this R work! You can be proud and hold your head high! and thanx for being there for me on my post!
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
